I think SMcQueen could be right, your H could be done.
no. I was commenting on kevin's 'fantasyland' statement, and waiting around. I believe if your spouse is walking away and planning a future without you then by all means use the most effective tool at your disposal, copy their actions. It is working on you. And it has been shown over and over on this forum it works on other WAS. And it can be read over and over again on this forum how unhealthy it is to be waiting around till they are done with their affairs. There is a chance there is always a chance, but you have to act quick. you have to act effectively.
Sure love is deep, and years and years of togetherness form a certain familiarity you can not see yourself living without. But truthfully, if you wait years for your lover to fall out of love and sex with someone else are you still in love with that same person; that person is now different, grown, and has an understanding of love in a way you yourself have not been to experience. or are you in love with a memory?
I believe the "fog" statement to be a bunch of baloney. They know full well what they are doing and feeling. They are just not doing and feeling it with you. wating out the fog, fantasyland, and aliens. Seems to me to only serve to enable self pity.
