Thought I was over this

[Gardener]

I doubt I'll consider her a friend if we end up in a D. Friends give second chances. A friend is someone you turn to in times of trouble.

I agree, CTH. If any friend demonstrated - proved - to me that their word, their promise, their commitment was meaningless and worthless, I would no longer want to be their friend. In fact, such actions would be proof positive to me that they no longer consider me a friend.