My comments are a bit out of whack, reading them back! I was angry and tired last night. Basically, I said to him that if he didn't want to meet in person that was fine. I offered to speak with him by phone. I know that he is expecting a letter that is here and, as he has more mail too and has not collected any of it, I was simply offering to forward it to him. It was not a punitive statement!
The objective of the letter would be to outline where I am sitting in all of this. I am in limbo land whilst he is in bimbo land and I have been left high and dry with no resources, no warning and now facing the reality and burden of sailing the ocean that we chose together, whilst he has abandoned ship.
I can't go on living this way and he has to stop treating me like the enemy - I have done nothing to warrant it and I feel that, if he wants a new life, he should deal with the old one first. He's just basically walked away - but will be holding his hand out the minute - if and when the house is sold.
I was being mysterious about me, not the finances Dudess!! I was business-like about everything and then added that I needed him to make a decision on our meeting or not as I too had things to organise over the weekend!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
