Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
This will cover BillClay's issues of being too lenient. My W is going to end up owing me a big chunk of money


Natural consequences of her decision.

Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
I'd definitely be willing to lower it for lower child support payments and more time with the kids.


Win-win for you...time spent with your kids is priceless, but why pay more for that priviledge.

Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
Secondly, it puts the onus squarely on W's shoulders. This is what she wants. I'm offering to help her get there. If you love someone, set them free.


Yep.

Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage)
W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage)
M4
Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D
W moved out 8/29/09
I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done