I don't have any great words of wisdom for you, but I was riveted to your two long posts on this thread. You have a great way of expressing yourself, and my money is on you and your wife reconciling. I can't tell you WHY, exactly, it's just that . . . you don't seem "done" with each other, and there's a real love and tenderness underneath your relationship.
Don't count it out. I practically did, and I would have been wrong.
