Later at home - H ate more soup (lol) and was texting but left phone in kitchen and went back and forth between watching tv in living room with me and texting in kitchen...kinda odd, although he did lol at one of the texts he got. (That always makes me sad/jealous, when I have to hear him laugh in the other room when he is on phone or texting with OW.
FG,
Ya done good, girl -- real good. Very good self-control!
But the part above jumped out at me. Why do you allow him to text his girlfriend from YOUR marital home??? There's no way I would allow that, and DIDN'T, when my wife was having her affair. I told her that it was extremely rude, and disrespectful, and that if she wanted to talk to or text her boyfriend, she could go do it outside (which she did, even standing out in the driveway IN THE RAIN one night, talking to him).
You have to have boundaries, or you won't be able to continue to stay strong, IMHO.
