Maybe you need to tell your children not share such things with you....???
Detaching is almost impossible some days but it does get easier.

It's a tough road.

You want to reconcile because you took this promise seriously. It makes you a great person.

M-34/H-35/S-4
Bomb-11-08
OW confirmed 12-08-OW ends 6-09
D finalized 4-10
Stronger=Happy