will try to find your thread and make it more specific. For now, Just think hard about what your h's complaints were/are about the homelife or m or you. Then contrast them by doing the opposite. If he says you were a lousy housekeeper, do some spiffing up IF you can (I mean don't be a slave if you have a full time job and kids, etc - then try to hire some help but make it clear that his "data" isn't real or isn't true anymore IF it ever was) or if he said you didn't take good care of yourself, start doing it FOR YOU but again, you are undermining the negative things he says about you to you or to himself to justify his choice to leave. ALL WAS's do this.
They vilify, justify and deny the good in you, so that they can rationalize a selfish choice. Don't fuel it. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
