How did you find out this information? I have been following you the whole time and hate to see your situation. It is hard enough to go down this path dealing with a WAS, never mind outside influence like you are encountering.
I am unversed in restraining orders, but how is she going to get one? You leave...what...2000 miles away. Or is this an attempt by her parents to stop you from talking with your children? This is just a sick situation....sorry to see it happening to a good guy.