Not feeling great right now. Out of town visiting my brother and enjoying my 3-yr old niece. Saw a phone call today - yes I was checking the cell phone records (only a minute) to the "friend." I called my H and he pretty much called me on the fact that I was trying to catch him in a lie. He said he called to find out about picking up the treadmill this weekend at the lake - he wanted to see if anyone would be at their condo. He got voice mail and didn't leave a message.
He also in looking through my FB page said he discovered I have a separate email account which I swear I told him about. So now I'm out of town and he's upset with me. I apologized and told him I should have been forthcoming and just said I was looking at the phone records and noticed you called X. I told him I don't check the records every day. Phone calls to him this week have not been great. So it left me feeling uneasy.
My H said I thought we were moving forward and past all this. Now he feels like I'm checking up on him all the time. And that I'm actually the one hiding things now. As far as him being upset about my being here - see previous post. He said he just has to get over it. It's hard to work on things when I'm not there.
