I have the same problem - we had a few friends, but not many, and all this divorce stuff happened after we moved, so we both are starting over. I have to learn to make new friends without my wife around. It's something that will serve us better in the long term, regardless of whether or not our marriages are saved.
Me: 35 W: 31 D10, S7, S2, S11 months M: 11 years Tricked into separation. In Last Resort.
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053
