"We all had to go through this process which led to deep introspection and research to figure out what was wrong. Be honest with yourself, you wouldn't have figured all this out if your spouse didn't walk."
TRUE
but my point is this she & I have misread the intent of each other our whole lives and if my WAW smacked me like you stated she & I would have acted the way you stated
But now if her intent was to wake me up I'm now in a place to see that as that and not to go call 911 to say I'm being physically abused
which is my point. we all have done (LBS & WAS) something that was mis read as one thing when it was completely something else & most likey really had nothing to do with us in the first place.
if we don't see these things, (WAS & LBS) we a dommed to repeat the same failure in out next relationships
Which is the whole point to this Post to see what WAS realized this and if they could admit it or which one hadn't & why?
WAW 32 ME 38 D11, S9 & D2 Together 10/96 Married 4/2000 Bomb 4/2006 PA1 9/2006 PA2 11/2006 I now know I want out, With my Kids!!!
