why would you want to wait a couple years for your husband to get sick of screwing around with some skank whore? why?
Because you value M and these things can and do get turned around with time once fantasy land ends. Haven't we all made mistakes at times? Isn't that one reason we are all here? Right now her H is making a mistake. Give it time to reconcile itself.
Plus, there are kids involved who would love for nothing more than their parents to reconcile and be a full fledged real family again.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...