Validating is good. I've given W flowers and gifts during this and it turned out to be weird.

Validating is always good though.

Good luck with MC. My W won't even try that anymore. She has just decided that we weren't "meant" to work it out.

yet she's still here.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.