After going to the lawyer on Monday, especially in IN, I have no real options. H would get partial custody, although he had been absentee for 5+ months and I feel he is not fit to have him over night and can prove reasons why. H would have to pay some child support but nothing back paid because I did not file anything because I want my marriage to work.
I feel for you. I never had to deal with an OM. I have no idea how I would have done it. He's so inconsistent, even if he was granted partial custody, he may just drop out of the picture. Lots of men can't handle the responsibility, unfortunately.
Have you guys had any talks about what you need from him and what he needs from you to make this work?
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