it was really weird to walk in and see him sitting on a bench waiting. i did not look at him i sat and waited for my attorney on the other side of the waiting area.
went inside court room w my attorney, which is basically another waiting room! h was on opposite side with his attorney, who happened to be a "fill in" attorney for his usual one, not even an associate of the firm (dont ask)...
long story short, h wanted an adjournment bc they were not prepared for the motion i filed. he was to be given the standard one month to get his paperwork done, which includes net worth and response etc.
our lawyers went in back with judge, h trying to claim not working again. my att said, interesting, my client has a text from him from this weekend saying he was working and couldnt come on sunday...that went over real well!!!
his att attempted to keep him from paying me and judge didnt like it.
to top it all off, my att said, so how is he paying his living expenses, the 2 cars and phones, how did he bail her out of jail, who is paying for her to go back to school and who paid for his trip to DISNEY WORLD!!!!!!!
so his att was floored had no defense or a clue!
judge ordered his paperwork in within 7 days rather than a month and was instructed to voluntarily give me money within the next 7 days...i doubt he will!!!!!!
they will be imputing income and perhaps ordering him to try and get his old job back where he worked for 10 years and left to start our business.
so it went well. not sure what he was thinking when he came in and expected to keep getting away with not paying and claiming to not work!!!!
it was hard and not, im really doing ok!
not really thinking about the divorce part, more about the money right now...
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
