I don't have any wonderful words of wisdom. But I can't emphasize 180'ing and Gal'ing enough. You must do this for you. I'm so sorry that we have to meet here. Hugs being sent to you.
Me 37 H 41 2-dd's (2,3) T-14 M-10 D-Day 6/18/09 (MOW ended their brief "love" affair a few weeks later) Separated- 7/3/09