Ups and Downs

[Energizer Bunny]

I am less attached that's for sure, but not 'detached' at this point. It's hard to do when we were sleeping together and cuuddling only a few days ago.

I want to be understanding and compassionate after periods like that. Nothing 'codependent.' I don't really like that term. People seem to have a tendency to lean on that and make it sound as selfishness and inconsideration are good and caring about your spouses feelings is some kind of mental disorder when talking about codep.

In my opinion one would have to be going to extremes for that to apply. May be just my view.