EB,thats interesting.How did she know you had more stuff going on on your page?
Well tonight is the first change off night. Not really fearing it all. Infact, after adopting the motto "If you have no expectations, you can't lose" I feel much better. I am going for complete neutrality this evening. No R discussion, No D discussion, just surface conversation. That is the goal. No asking about her week, no asking where shes been, no asking who shes been with. We can talk about the weather and the kids and whatever show happens to be on TV. If she asks where I am traveling for work I will tell her, otherwise Neutral, neutral, neutral.
Sandi, I did speak with both the boys about tonight, only to ask if the had any expectations. I did not ask them to clam up or to run from the table screaming no "D." Both seemed OK. However, proof will be in the pudding and it may take a few days for any concerns of theirs to surface.
S(10) did mention that he wanted to talk to the counselor at school, but did not feel comfortable with it, so I will reach out to her and see how we can make that work.
Other than that, let's see how tonight goes. I got a new haircut, good looking shirt and pants (not overdoing it.) Just begining to show a new me with much PMA.
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present
