I know before I changed my security anyone looking for me or at a friends page could see mine. You do have to change it. You need to go into settings, privacy, profile and change everything to just friends. then if someone looks for you they just see your picture and it says you have to be friends to contact this person.
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I checked the other day and it looks like only friends can see on my stuff so should be ok.
I finally listened to my phone messages today (I need to be better about that). X had left a phone message Tues. night saying he had D9's medicine, and S15 and he were waiting for me, since it was HIS night to have them. (If he decides something, I guess it must be so). My L also called and wants to set up an appt. for tomorrow. Yeah, another $200 down the drain. I'm going to ask up front if it's just an informational meeting or something actually needs to be done, b/c I just had one of those "chat" meetings last week. I go over some stuff for the 3rd or 4th time, which does me or the kids no good, and so irritating to have to pay for that! Plus, she wants to meet tomorrow, when I have the play twice (matinee and evening) so I really want to spend my hour or 2 off in the L's office.
I've got the play tonight; I'm glad so sick of D mess!
Definately see if anything would become of the 'meeting'. I never held a high opinion of lawyers, and after the D experience, now I know why, even the ones on your side are out to get you in some way. Usually the pocket book.
Definately get out a bit and get a break from it.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
I would tell her that unless it was for setting up an emergency hearing regarding H's behavior then you don't want to spend the money to just refresh her memory. That is what her assistant is there for. Sorry I am getting fed up with her lack of action.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Ditto sick of the high-price do-nothing attorney. And yeah, can't wait for a break! I don't know what I would do without that sometimes!!!
S15 was given progress report 2 weeks ago. X says he copied for me and put in S15's backpack, but when I got S15 and his pack (it was after a weekend with his dad) there wasn't one in there. Of course, I can't be sure if he did or not, b/c S15 does reach in his pack randomly and pull out paperwork in there and toss it. So don't know what happened with that.
I called the school today to see if I could get a copy. They can't for some strange reason. I asked her about online grades if I could just look them up, and she said yes, your husband has the login info for that, and they don't give 2 out for people in our sitch. So she gave me S15's login.
It seems apparent to me that X is not good about sharing info, such as the parent password. That's something I would have emailed him right off. Should I email him and ask for the password, I'm thinking, if he doesn't provide for me then an example of his lack of communication skills, which I think is or at least should be considered in custody issues. I don't really need the password I don't think, more just thinking of it as legal tactic. Ideas?
Since you will be talking to your lawyer. Wait and ask her. The least amount of communication you can have with your stbxh the better. In the meeting you will need to know what kinds of things you should be preparing for if/when your stbx starts going for full custody because you want to be prepared.
You can always go into the school to see the grades, even if they won't send you one, I'm sure. Temporary solution.
I had no problem getting copies of my kids grades. They were issued two copies each and one sent directly to my house. Until I had to write a nice little letter to XW underlining each and every section she has been in violation of our parenting agreement, I didn't say a darn word to her about it and apparently that tactic has had an effect, she is speaking iwth the teachers now and starting to converse with me regarding school issues, which is all I ask of her.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
So, Karen, how did the meeting with your L go? I really hope she's going to take these actions by your H more seriously. She has to!
This lack of communication from your STBX is par, but he should not be allowed to get away with denying you from access to any and all information regarding the children. The password issue is just blatantly wrong (I set up the account and password to S4's previous preschool and gave xW the password so she too could access. There's no point in being so @*#$! petty.)
