My H never wore a ring because truth be told....that ring is not important. If two people love each other the rings simply show the world that each person is taken, but there are plenty of people who cheat while wearing their rings. Let that go, it's not important.
You just have to stay the course and really start concentrating on you.
The newest thing with H and I...the thing getting on my nerves now is that he'll make tentative plans....his doing, not my asking then if I ask him something about those plans he gives me "I'm not up to that yet". However, he sent me an email or text saying otherwise.
So my solution? I'll make my own plans and his will fit with mine or they won't. But either way, not going to discuss such matters with him any more.
