I've def. taken ownership in this and my part. The difference is that he really hasn't. I'm in IC. He doesn't believe in C even though he compliments my therapist all of the time for her work with me. I could go on but what's the point? Either he takes ownership and we make it or he doesn't and maybe we don't.
"Is it more like you to do what you want or what he wants?"
Depends. If I want to go play tennis, I go. If I want to go to a movie with him, he normally is game. If it's his weekend off, he may go out without me. It's really a non-issue on both side what we do.
