Wife says she wants me to move on

[brknheart]

thanks LolaL. Im almost to the point where Ive given up all hope. I like what you said regarding my old relationship is gone, only a new one can exist. That is one of the reasons I asked her about spending some time with me off and on, to see if something happens. She is convinced nothing will. She was the one who came up with "i can give you 2 nights a week" thing, but I think she is only doing that because she feels sorry for me, being alone at the house, etc. Should I continue to see her like this or tell her I dont want her to do things she doesnt want to do? We have no kids and she has everything she needs where she is living now, so there isnt any reason for us to see each other. Its almost if im scared to see her tonight if she comes over, my self esteem is shot. Thats one of the things I need to work on for sure.