I think the best think you can do is work on yourself and keep the positives flowing in the right direction (like it seems like they are now). Remember that you and only you can turn this thing around. There are things you can control (opps,bad word, I know-ha) and things you cannot. So, if you keep doing the right things, as detailed in the DB book ad posted all over this board, then your W cannot help but see a change in you and no matter what your MIL may say, if you are doing the right things, you will rise above any love busting you MIL may mudsling you with. In fact, your W may even come to your defense and that would be huge.
Keep doing what you are doing, don,t slip and your W will notice!
NSD
Last edited by neversaydie63; 10/08/0904:30 PM.
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