I think you are one of the classiest men I have ever met in my life. This experience has been one of the tougher I have read, and yet you have managed to maintain your dignity, and try over and over again.
Jeff, Darlin' you are a true example for everyone.
(((HUGS)))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
((((((Fallgirl)))))) It is an energy sapper, for sure. Which helps lead to a vicious cycle, I think. I think it is important to really take advantage of opportunites to "recharge" yourself. Every little break, or diversion you do for yourself can help you when you have to interact with H.
Originally Posted By: LolaL
I think you are one of the classiest men I have ever met in my life. This experience has been one of the tougher I have read, and yet you have managed to maintain your dignity, and try over and over again.
Jeff, Darlin' you are a true example for everyone.
Thank you ((((((Lola))))))!
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Maybe he changed the his status from separated to divorced on his profile and now all his time is consumed responding to all the ladies that are seeking him out.
I haven't been dating that much! I am seeing one woman once a week or so. There's another one I want to see again, but it is a little more difficult to arrange. (And it wasn't a date!)
Really not much happening. Lots of waiting!
Saw S20 this weekend for a few minutes, his brother went up to Flagstaff to fetch him Friday night, they got back well after I was asleep. Saturday they got up in time to go to an all day series of concerts at the fairgrounds, and got home pretty late. I did get to talk to him a bit then. He saw the flex in a golf club in a picture in a Golf magazine, and we talked ahout the physics of a golf swing for an hour and a half. His brother took him back to Flagstaff Sunday morning, leaving around 7, since he had to be back to Tucson to work at 4. Now both of them seem to have the flu, as well as the friend they went to the concert with! So fat I have avoided it, I hope that continues! The younger two are ok so far as well.
S14 has a football game tonight, hopefully they will win handily so he can play!
S18 is in college this year and I really miss seeing him on the football field! That caught me by surprise. OK- he was in the band (the other stars of Friday Night Football!), and was elected Drum Major in his senior year- very easy to spot!
Hope your son's team had a good game, and enjoy your weekend!
The band was the star... the players were the pregame and postgame! (Ok, I was in the band!)
His team won, in a terrible landslide. But that was good, because it meant he got to play. I think his coach waits too long to put in the subs, by the time S14 was in the game any passing would have been unsportsmanlike, and he's a wide reciever. So I got to watch him block!
