* Be honest about my mistakes.* Communicate this in a different format(letter) with no pressure for immediate feedback. * Provide a basis for him to understand why I am acting different. * take a risk of opening up which I haven't in a very long time.
Then do it. Show him. What are his LLs? Open up by sharing. He knows why you are doing what you are doing.
I don't think the letter is dishonest it's not a great tool to get the job done. If you think that a letter helps in your sitch then apologise for your behavior and share this: "I married you because you're handsome, kind, thoughtful, smart, and have a sense of humor. And you are the strongest, manliest man on the planet."
Short and to the point. A man wants to know you have been thinking about the issues not feeling them.
And what Lotus is saying, don't bow down to him but respect him and be a partner. A man wants his wife to think, have a opinion, be involved, and be supportive.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
