Trying to save my M. W not really trying though.

[Thinker]

Pick a good friend that you can talk to about it on a regular basis with.

I would be careful what you confide to your family about at this time. I told my family too much in the early days of my sitch and it is causing me problems now, as they are now critical of my attempts to reconcile with my W.

But having a good friend who will understand and who you can call frequently and meet with regularly is invaluable.

I had a running buddy that I would talk with - our morning runs became invaluable to me.