They are all getting together this weekend but obviously thats out for me.
Why is that out for you? I think it may do you some good to get a sitter and go out and have fun, not every night or anything but you need to have a life...
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
They are all getting together this weekend but obviously thats out for me.
Why is that out for you? I think it may do you some good to get a sitter and go out and have fun, not every night or anything but you need to have a life...
Well, because I am the only one that can put her to sleep and she wakes up multiple times. No, I haven't been very good in the sleep training area. She sleeps with me. I just can't let her cry it out. Never have been able to and really since its just been me, I do what I need to do to sleep. So, a couple of hours early in the evening is ok, but not for long.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Thanks VD...going to try and set something up for dinner. They tend to go out really late and stay out late.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
You know your daughter can be taught to sleep without you. Probably not what you want to hear. When my second child was having surgery, my baby was only a few months old. Sleeping arrangements were akward to say the least. I ended up taking a blanket and wearing it next to me for a few hours before we went to sleep. Then I put it next to her where she could then smell me on it. She slept really well and nearly the whole night which was great since she was sleeping in a strange "bed".
It doesn't hurt to try.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Why is it some days I wake up really sad? I go along at my little pace and then out of the blue I wake up really sad and hopeless. Maybe its because I don't have alot to look forward to in the next week or so. My little group of single friends don't want to do an early dinner, they want to go out late and stay out late. Not for me. I am extremely broke right now too. Can't afford much more than McD's!
Exh was here yesterday. He told me he is going out of town this weekend and a guy friend is driving him. I don't really believe that. I am sure the MOW is going. Why does that bug me? Am I jealous? I hate feeling this way and no matter how much I tell myself they don't matter, it does.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I think it may be a little of this. Not that you're jealous of the MOW but that maybe he has someone...Been there...That's why the whole detachment thing is so important so that no matter what he is doing it doesn't bother you.
The waking up sad thing, I still get that way, but it's less and less. Happened to me one day last week, it sux.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
LOL yep...I probably am my own worst enemy. I wonder how such a broken person has no problem getting women lined up and willing to do whatever for him (me included for a long time)? He has nothing. No license, no money, kids that don't want to be with him and one he can't have, a recluse, addict, etc. I can go on and on. I think I am a decent person, average looking, nice, etc but am the one constantly alone! I don't think I have room for something serious in my life anyway, but it would be nice to have options!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
The weekend is almost here! Trying to get something planned but people are already doing other things. Exh will make his visit today as his friend/MOW cannot leave for the weekend till later. Will be nice to not have to see him until Monday!!
Yesterday was an awful day mentally. Not just with exh stuff but just life. One of those days where everything went wrong. I left the sprinkler on in the front yard for 4 hours. My computer is practically smoking its so old and messed up. Want to get a new one but $$ is not there. Having trouble doing my online course due to the computer. Had to purchase an extension which is $$ I again don't have! Something strange is happening with my oldest d20. She is somehow making up stories about what I am saying and now has her bf turned against me and he is trying to cut her off from her sister or anyone else that tries to talk to her. Not good. I was snapping at baby a few times yesterday due to stress. Today has to be different!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
