BTW, OM IS in town. I called W's work and asked for him. They couldn't track him down because it's a huge office but the receptionist said she's pretty sure he's in today. Yeah, they probably had sex last night. Possibly even in our own bed since the fancy restaurant W called is only about 2 minutes away.
Where were you last nite? I don't remember.
btw, if you want to have some fun with this (and you do have to, occasionally, or else you'll go nuts), here's a great alternative to "confronting" OM. I did this.
When you see him, walk straight towards him, looking him dead in the eye. Then, when you get about six or eight feet away from him . . . WINK at him, and grin. Then walk away.