Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[mishka422]

You should plan out ahead of time what you are going to do when he violates your boundaries, because I fully expect him to.

I agree wholeheartedly!

What will your action be when he doesn't leave this weekend as you have told him to?

Pack his clothes into boxes and sit them outside the front door. Unhook garage door opener, lock all doors preferably with bolts he can't open.

Show him you mean what you say. He's like a wayward child. If you don't follow through on what you say then he'll never take you seriously. He's walking on you, your boundaries, your feelings and expects you to just suck it up.

I like the stand you are taking, you HAVE to follow through though!!!!