Your happiness must be hitched to how you feel about YOU. .
Amen. Gotta detatch completely and not be affected by her or what is going on in her life at all. Easier said than done, but worth the effort nonetheless...and necessary.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
