What a night.

I can see how your mind had been going while she was out of contact with you. It looks like you guys are still on track though.

Your W sounds like she is in a pretty dark place. She's lucky to have a H like you that is willing to help her through this instead of focusing completely on himself and telling her to hit the bricks. It's a hard mindset to maintain.

I'm happy for you that your evening went as it did. I mean, I am sorry your W is in such a dark place, but happy for you that she is still interested in working on things.

You must feel so relieved.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.