I can see how your mind had been going while she was out of contact with you. It looks like you guys are still on track though.
Your W sounds like she is in a pretty dark place. She's lucky to have a H like you that is willing to help her through this instead of focusing completely on himself and telling her to hit the bricks. It's a hard mindset to maintain.
I'm happy for you that your evening went as it did. I mean, I am sorry your W is in such a dark place, but happy for you that she is still interested in working on things.
You must feel so relieved.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.