Is this the end....or a new beginning?

[MrBond]

GAG,

You've been doing very well in your sitch and recognizing the patterns in your H. If he is in MLC and is coming out of it, don't be surprised to see a bunch of cycling on his behalf.

He will still be very confused, so no matter what you do in terms of being a woman, may not affect him as it would a normal male. Continue to show your support for him and encourage him by agreeing to what he says. Then ask him "what are you going to do about it?" Guys need to problem solve not just to have their thoughts validated. If you present that to him, he'll understand what needs to be done.

Love him from a distance and give those 20 somethings a run for their money. But do not expect him to act in a logical way. He definitely will not. Be hot, act hot and look hot. He'll snap out of it one day. Just don't give the perception of putting any pressure on him.

Have you ever watched "Desperate Housewives" how the women on there have can manipulate the circumstances to get the end result they are looking for? Well that's what you need to do. You have to make it seem like he comes to his own conclusions. He's going to have to do that in order to come out of the fog he is in.

You can do it. Good luck.