It's actually for him a thing of endearment....he says in a little flirty voice. By no means was it meant as an insult but at the same time I think it's easier for him to blame us both for getting to a point where he was comfortable going outside the marriage.
But again things are calm and normal.
He's debating what he wants to do for our anniversary. I want to stay in town, but we got tickets to a casino to see a comedian both of us like....so he's on the fence. I'm going to leave it up to him, but I would rather just stay put....do something low key for our anniversary.
