Read your post and funny thing is that now she's saying she only had sex w/ one man and that she was just in love w/ another man and she wanted to have sex with him but he wouldn't? WTF??? So, the lies continue. I don't know what the truth is and probably never will.
John, thanks for your reply. I've been reading your situation.
The truth is that your wife has been lying to you and taking you for a complete fool. Like mine has done with me.
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Can't we just have sex to see if there's still something there? don't u still love me? Can't we give it another shot?
My God, I have heard this exact same stuff as well a few times. Verbatim, word for word. They all read from the same script.
One time when we were separated, my wife came to visit me in the city I lived in. We played pool and when I mentioned I was going on a date she kissed me passionately. The next morning we had wild, passionate sex and when I asked her why she said "I wanted to see how I feel about things". She said the same thing about one of her jaunts to see OM. Frankly I felt like smashing her jaw with a baseball bat and had to get out of the house, otherwise I would have. Not proud of myself for having had those thoughts.
Whatever you do, you have my support. Please don't go back to the same marriage you had before by letting her march right back in. I think it's gross the way she's been dealing with your daughter, and she does sound like a control freak.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
