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Just don't react. Sounds like she's putting on a show for you to prove how young and independant and happy she is. With such a big show, I'm not convinced. Don't let it get to you. She will have to deal with the real world - but she will only do it when she's ready, certainly not because you tell her to.

Originally Posted By: sandi2
I agree. She is like a rebellious teenager right now and the more you "disapprove" of how she looks or acts.....the worse she will be. (Encouraging...huh?) The sad thing also, is that others will just shake their heads in utter confusion at what she is displaying.


I agree with you both- I recognize it for what it is- and I am choosing not to react to this nonsense.


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