It is obvious she is focused on her appearance and trying to look younger. I'm thinking she's in MLC. Bet it was hard to stay composed when you saw her red hair & sunglasses!
Yes, I'm just waiting for the "other shoe" to drop after she gets her D settlement- I'm sure a boob job is high on her "To Do" list. As to the hair dyeing situation, that was a little awkward at first and I didn't want to be mean so I didn't say anything for awhile. But when D3 made a silly comment about "Mommy's red hair", I couldn't resist and commented that maybe Daddy should dye his beard purple so Mommy and Daddy could match.
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She would only spend that money and when it ran out....then she would be coming back to dear BJ for some other avenue for cash. Hope you can stick to your boundaries and not give in to her pressure.
I agree however in speaking with my L it appears that the way things are going I'm going to have to refinance and cash my W out sooner than I wanted to. I'm not happy about it- once again my W is shirking personal accountability and delegating her problems back on me. On the positive side, getting detached from my W financially sooner rather than later may be for the best.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
