The EA/PA - Should LBS proactively address it?

[71potc]

So to summarize, your advice is to sit and wait it out (if I can). Just do nothing and let the EA/PA burn itself out because the EA/PA lasts on average about 6 months. Emotionally detach so that I don't get all worked up.

If I force her hand and push her into divorce, then I will have one guaranteed. Whereas if I sit a wait, there is a good chance that the EA/PA will fail, and then we can hopefully move on from there, without a divorce.

BTW, my W has been in her MLC since 2004, but only worked up enough courage to find her OM only 10 wks ago. So I've been living with her MLC for a while now. Her threats of divorce have been going on since 2004 but now her threats have teeth because she has an escape plan (the OM).

Thanks for your advice.