mountains out of mole hills here and major mind reading and then discussing with bil who can't possibly know wth is going on with your stbxw. Who cares that you answered the door and she wondered why she had to get out of the car IF IF IF that's what was in her mind? Who cares? What if she's mad at Obama for not meeting the Dalai Lama?? Will you wonder how that relates to you? It doesn't...
Just get the Div paperwork you have, done, and man up tomorrow morning. No arguing, just validating your d's perspective unless it's historical revision and you can say you don't recall it that way. And drop it. But own your stuff and shock her with that accountability. Once you "steal the thunder" and concede the mistakes you made and say you recognize them, you are sorry for the pain you caused her as you love her deeply and you are working on it...SO, a problem being worked on, is no longer a problem...make sense? J-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
