I know the LBSs should be concentrating on improving ourselves and not focusing on the WASs, but have some questions: How does a WAS make the transition to returning? What is the progression of coming back if they do? Is there some pattern that has been seen on here? If not married should we allow ourselves to get involved with OW? What if the WAS returns after another R is established OW? What is best if you have children (we have D2.5yrs)?