Ill bet that she has lots of issues. Shes had a lifetime of poor coping skills to develop them. I guess that all you can do is take care of you and the kids and hope that things work out for her!
I had the same problem when I very first started on match.com. Honestly I like it when someone contacts me first. I guess that you just start with what caught your eye about their profile. Also, I tend to beleive that once you start getting a little bit older, 30s or so, if someone hasnt been married, theres might be a pretty good reason! So, I wouldnt be discouraged, besides, I also feel a little less anxious when they are divorced, like theres a shared experience, like I will have less explaining to do I suppose. Just wink at a few cuties and see what happens!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
