Hell Frank maybe you burnt the toast the last time you made it for her.
Maybe I 'imagine' too much. WTFK's (Who The Fook Knows)
Originally Posted By: J3B
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Maybe a year from now she'll be beyond that.
Maybe...
Some people hold onto grudges like they were security blankets.
Maybe you'll be beyond caring.
As for the critizing?
If you did it on purpose then shame on you...pointless, as it stands I didn't see it that way and maybe she should start being more on time, although leopards and spots man...leopards and spots.
I didn't do it on purpose. Really. She was perturbed that D14 wasn't ready to go - even though she was 20 minutes late and COULD have called D14 like she usualy would. I casually pointed out that she didn't follow her usual protocol and got lambasted for it.
I talked to brother in law and he reminded me of a few things.
* When she doesn't call D14 in advance so she can 'be ready' for pickup, it's because she wants to come to the front door knowing that I will answer the door.
* She has two modes she is in then. Either she is ready to be insulted by anything I say, or she is 'sweet and nice' waiting for a response, which I don't give her any more.
During all of this I am doing my best to stay neutral. This is not personal, nor is she attacking me. It's just MLC / Runaway stuff. And I will give her the financial info this week.
I need to end this cycle. I still love her, like we all do. I need to remove myself from the drama. We will get divorced. It's a requirement for the construction of my new life.
WTFK's (Who The Fook Knows)
