I'd put my foot down: "I'm sorry you're tired, but I am on the edge of leaving. Since we were supposed to make the decision to continue together or not at our session tomorrow AND you don't seem to want to make the effort, I will assume your answer to continuing to work on the M is no."
You deserve better.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
