Good news: No real issues with the paperwork; The house was a non-issue. The only way she would have to share the loss in equity is if I sold the house soon at it's current value, which I wouldn't do. The fact is I really can't sell it until it's get near the value it was 4 yrs ago, which hopefully will be in the spring. Basically she's relinquishing any claim to the house, which is all I wanted anyway. One other small issue that needs to be handled by a lawyer, nothing major.
Bad news: It's over.
Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage) W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage) M4 Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D W moved out 8/29/09 I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done