She had written me a letter saying how sorry she was that a "nightmare" had come into her life. She said there was nothing wrong with me and that I was a good guy. But that was quite a while before she asked for a second chance.
When she asked for a second chance, I already had a girlfriend and was 100% positive that I wanted the divorce to finalize. I really dont know what was in her mind on asking for the 2nd chance. Maybe she was wanting to save face and have an excuse to say she tried to save the marriage. It was a surprise to me, but I did not want her to beg and plead so I told her right away that the answer was no. She tried to put the blame on me by stating that I said that I would wait indefinitely. But, I reminded her that I had given her a time frame of July, which had passed, and it was the end of November already.
She had never admitted to a PA with the OM even when she was living with him. She went out of her way to try to convince me that it was just as friends. I had caught her telling a lie before about how she got an STD, so I was not believing anything anymore from her. Plus, it was my own kids that told me their mom was sucking face with OM. I just about passed out when I was driving the car when they said that to me.
