Who is this person?

[Day by Day]

Thanks for your words Ron, I believe it would have been that he would have just vented. My IC agreed I would have only gone to get hurt. Good luck to you, sounds like you are on the right course.

What I didn't mention, part of what lead up to me deciding not to go was our communication a couple days before. I just didn't want to write about it, but now I can.

Before the bomb, H had bought a pair of concert tickets which are for this wknd. I had responded to one of his emails with a "btw, what's the news on the tickets". He replied that he didn't know yet and left a voicemail to find out by Monday. On Monday after the miscommunication about visiting the kids, he said not to worry about HIS tickets. He said he will figure out what to do with them when he gets them.

I found that to be aggressive, I backed off and we have had no contact since then. It hurts to think that he might be going with someone else and having that experience without me. I had been so looking forward to spending it with him, but I know it would be very awkward now anyhow. I seriously doubt he will miss going. It meant too much to him.

I really wish I knew what I was dealing with, MLC or WAS. I do think there's depression though. He's too stubborn and full of pride and contempt for him to miss me with NC. The GAL is working for my PMA, but there's no improvement in H.