Definitely don't go and add a mans name to your calendar, at this point now, you want to start reeling him in, not give him fuel to run in the opposite direction. REMEMBER WHAT HAPPENED TO ME and I didn't even have a name on a calendar.
Your H has opened up to you and you need to now embrace that. It isn't easy for males to open up like we women do, so he needs to be congratulated and given some respect for that.
You still want him to pursue you but don't make it really hard for him or all your good work will go down the drain. Try to meet him halfway, show him how much fun you are to be with.
We are having a naughty night out Friday night, he has booked the hotel, we are going out for dinner, then onto a wine bar for some music, stuff we used to do before we got lost in the humdrum routine of life, kids, work.
Keep that as your goal LR, to get back to what you had when you met. Don't be afraid of the R talk.
