my W doesn't regret her affair

[MrBond]

Your W is right in that the affair gave her strength to do what she needed to do in terms of turning your sitch around. She is wrong however in saying that it means you can't be together.

Both she and you have to examine what the A represented. Not the A itself. What was she lacking that the A kicked into action? Find that out and your R will be better than ever.

I believe that all M can be healed. It just takes an understanding of why things happened in order for it to happen. Oftentimes it's a combination of alot of things. The key is to find out what that combination is and your R will be stronger than ever.

Good luck.