Ok in his own stupid and painful way it was romantic. Certainly not something that was thought out. So in that instant he gets the clarity of what YOU mean to him. What he really doesn't get since a vast number of men are stupid, is what it will take to win your heart back. He does not understand what this has done to your heart.
Maybe you should leave him with this premise...we have been married a number of years and have built a life and created a family. I in a moment of insanity begin an affair. It is just a lark at first and then I begin to wonder if I could possibly love this man. I move out and over a period of 3 years carry on this alternate life not fully kown by you. Now the truth is out, please think with your heart what I would need to do to show you that I love you and only you and that I deserve this final chance to make things right between us. Then you need to do that times 10.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
