You're right about not trying to label what she did. The person I married is in there somewhere and the truth will be known to her once her fog lifts.
I guess I should clarify in that I know that when we R, it will not be the same relationship as before. She is going through her own changes as sure as I'm going through mine. Funny how when they go through a MLC, it triggers our own in a much more positive way.
In terms of the detachment, I had gotten to the point after my panic attack where I detached a little too much and really didn't care if she was alive or dead. It was a little too detached. So I had to reign in some of the resentment I had for her and get a little bit of the affection back for her.
I look at her now and just see a shell of the person I married. Too sad. Did your W look better after her D? Mine is getting skinnier and having skin problems.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
